Well, where do I start? Many of you have e-mailed me, wondering why in the world we "dropped off the face of the map"...
I really didn't want to go into it all here on such a public forum, but after I was asked the wildest questions about what had happened to me, I thought I'd better just explain.
Right after my birthday the first week of September, I got VERY sick, and I mean sick. My symptoms were like the "flu on steroids", combined with abdominal pain, then jaundice and all that comes with that, along with FATIGUE that kicked my tail. It was determined after a lot bloodwork that I had Hepatitis E. I know, you've never heard of it. Well, I hadn't either. But, there is an "E" and it is wicked. You get it from contaminated food or water in Southeast Asia, or a few other places such as India and Africa. Soooo, as it turns out, "Li Ming" wasn't all I brought home from China! It literally put me in the bed for over a month. My sister came in from Cincinnati to take care of Macy Li and me. It took a lot of friends and family to pull me through it. Boy, did "Mr. Mom" spin some serious plates for a while, too!! Man, I never knew he was so domestic! He can bathe a baby, get a meal together, crank out some laundry, wait on me, clean up puke, clean a big house, keep up with 3 boys, coach a football team, and fix some teeth like no other! (Now, we won't mention "monitor homework" b/c it seems he might have forgotten that one, but we'll let him slide I guess). I'm almost completely well now, thanks to so many prayers by so many of you. Friends and family jumped in and served us in so many ways. My 4 boys say a big "thank you" to all of you who brought over the wonderful meals for so long. Feeding these growing boys ain't no easy task, especially during football season, so BLESS you all who served us in this way! I can never begin to express my thanks adequately, but please know that every bit of it was a blessing and made us all feel so loved.
Until this, I'd never really experienced illness or dependence. I realized that I stink at both. The Lord has taught me so much through all this about my "I got it all under control" nature, otherwise known as pride. I'm really not comfortable being so needy, or being on the receiving end of so much "service." Very humbling. He is constantly doing a fresh new work in my life, and for that I am thankful.
Lastly, I want to say that Macy Li was worth every bit of this. I would never want to give the impression of "look what it cost me." I would get it all over again for her in a minute...TODAY. That was NOTHING compared to the incomprehensible gift of her! This child has to be the most precious little cherub on the planet, and we'd sacrifice anything for her.
Okay, with all this said, I haven't caught you up on 2 1/2 months of "dating to diapers"...........Well, it would be impossible b/c so much has happened, but I am working on my next post to bring you a peek into what we've been doing and how much she has grown and changed.
Thankful to be back and among the living! :)
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Wow, I had certainly wondered what happened! So glad to hear you are on the mend and I will pray for your continued recovery! Hope to "see" you soon here on the blogs! Can't wait to see new pics of Macy Li!
I had no idea until I talked to Amy L. the other day. I'm so glad you're feeling better and wish I had known. I would have loved to help with that little sweetheart. Can't wait to meet Macy Li. Charlie is such a pistol, they are going to LOVE each other. Amy and I want to get together with you girls soon!
Oh Rhonda!
I've been checking here every day and I'm so glad you're back and on the mend. I did pray that all was "OK" what ever that is..in the event that something was wrong! Man! Now that I know, I'll continue to pray for strength and healing for you. Take care and God Bless you all.
Holly M. ( "met you thru Gwen O.'s bloggy)
YEAH~~~~
I am sooo glad you are feeling better and you are BACK..
I have missed you girly..
Can't wait for your new post and to see how much Macy Li has grown..
So glad you have had lots of help..
Hugs to you girly..
Rhonda, I'm sorry you've been so sick, but glad that you're feeling better and glad to see you back! Can't wait to see more pictures of Miss Macy Li and all her big brothers.
Rhonda, Gwen emailed me and let me know what was going on. I just can't believe you got SO sick. I am so glad that you are feeling better. I bet Macy has grown and changed so much! Can't wait to see pictures! Glad you're back to the land of the living!!
Wow! I had no idea you were sick. I kept checking you blog, but I figured you were really busy with the boys and football season, and your precious new addition. I am so glad you are getting well and I will be praying for your complete recovery!
Rhonda,
I'm so glad to see a post on your blog! I've been checking almost everyday, wondering what was wrong. So sorry to hear you've been so ill. Praise the Lord you're on the road to recovery!!!
It's such a blessing to have family & faith in God during during the rough times.
Blessings,
Carol
No need to thank us- we all loved helping you. That is what sisters do- right! There is not another place on earth that I would have rather been than there taking care of you and your family!!!! Love you, Sissy
I am so glad to "see" that you are back! You have been in our thoughts and prayers daily! I cannot wait to see how much Macy Li has grown. I will be looking for you at Walgreens or Academy! :o) Blessings! Kim
I've been stalking, but figured you were just enjoying life with diapers. ;o)
Sorry to hear you have been so ill. A good friend of mine brought back an amoeba that took up residence in her liver when she went to China to bring home her precious cherub. I worried the whole time I was in China about getting something.
Glad you are on the mend and that DH was able to keep the fort standing. Looking forward to more pictures and news of your little cherub. She *is* a cutie.
Rhonda/Twinangel
Woo Hoo! You are back! Praise the Lord you are ok! WOW, what a wild ride.
I have clicked on your blog EVERYDAY hoping and praying. I just knew something was up!
Welcome back to the land of the living.
Christi from Mississippi
Wow -- so glad to hear you're feeling better! When I traveled to China, I also brought back a bug with my little sweetie. It is so wonderful when family and friends rally and help out -- shows how very much you are needed and loved, doesn't it. Take care.
Janet
I have been wondering about you, too...just thought you were busy! I am so sorry you have been so sick! That sounds terrible! I have never heard of that! Sounds like nasty stuff! Especially with being a new mommy and all! I'm glad so many ministered to you all during this time!
Praying for a full recovery!
I am soooo glad to hear you are back!!! We have all worried about you. I can't imagine how hard this has all been for you. It is amazing how strong you are. I don't know if I could have made it through all you have gone through. Your family is a true blessing!!!
So glad you're back and pray you are strengthened more and more every day. Macy Li is soooo cute!
My goodness! I'm so sorry to hear that you have been dealing with all of that, but I'm glad you are doing better and getting to fully enjoy your kiddos & their activities again. I feel like I'm crashing a party I wasn't invited to as I've been a "lurker" of your blog since last summer. A friend adopted & blogged on JTM & that's how I found your sweet family and celebrated with you along the way. Macy is beautiful and it has been a privilege to share in your joy, even from afar. (My profile lists my own boring blog, so you can check out that I'm not a crazy wierdo...I'm really not! {smile}
Best wishes to you.
~Lori Anne
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